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Guest Blogger: Improvisers are Great Humans

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In writing this segment of Yes, And! I found I was a bit perplexed. There were so many great things about Improvisation, how could I pick only one as my next topic? I thought about all the time spent in the Playgrounds and Workshops and realized that, as always, I had too much to say.  After all, how do you sum up an entire month of Tuesday Playgrounds, working on what’s called a Henry, in just one sentence? So imagine this: I’m one character, playing with two different people, each playing one character, all of us playing our same character in two different scenes.  Challenging, right? Speaking for myself, only at first, but once I got the hang of it, they were fun, flowed well, and led to their own conclusions.  But that hasn't been all we've learned! While we have worked on different material every time and characters and characteristics develop every time, the people with whom we play don’t change. The names and faces may change week to week, but the underlying sincerity of those people has not.  Maybe it’s the fact that everyone tries so hard to get along with everyone else. We need to be nice, polite and sincere for this whole Improvisation thing to work. In other words we need to work and play well with others. In fact, even from my novice perspe
ctive I can see that the longer and more often we play together, the better our scenes become. One word you hear a lot of is mindset. When everyone is on the same page mentally scenes can just flow. It’s communication at its silent finest. But how did they, you or I get to be such great improvisers? I went searching for the answer and I found the answers by research and within myself as I determined that a great improviser exhibits the same traits as great human being. Since I know how I like my humans (crunchy and with ketchup).


Positive Traits of Great Improvisers and Great Humans
  • Whether improviser or human, I think the best thing is to listen to others.  The importance of this was personally felt by me, when the green football hit me in the head while somebody yelled lasagna, because I stopped paying attention during warm up games.
  • A great improviser and human, Yes Ands!, on stage and in life no matter what your partner (me) asks. In a recent Playground, I was doing a scene and asked my partner if he wanted to rain dance. He went with it and it turned into a really enjoyable scene involving Greek Mythology (and giggles!).
  • I believe as great improvisers and humans we all need to work together. I can’t think of one particular example, but more like 1000.  We are all grown-ups, most of us, but if you’re old enough to be in here, you’re old enough to follow the rules. We are all expected to play well together and take turns, just like in kindergarten.
  • I believe a great improviser/human radiates good energy. We’re not having kumbaya circles, but no one has yet to make me cry.  As a matter of fact, I have yet to not be laughing and in a great mood at the end of the night.
  • A great improviser and human should be silly. Perhaps I picked this up from being a stay-at-home mom and playing with kids as they've grown up, but I've always loved silly. And as long as I live I will never forget watching a show of Yadda Yadda Yadda that involved day-old birthday cake being eaten off the floor by party guests who had over stayed their welcome. It was actually at this moment that I realized I can do this! It wasn't the day-old birthday cake.  It was the presentation and collaboration of the improvisers that brought back memories from my own younger years. And they were funny.
  • Great improvisers and humans make their partners look good. Whether on stage or in life, it is our job to make our partner shine and prove to the world that we’re in this together. For in the end, that may be all we have.


Lisa Wildman lives with her husband, two teenage girls, two dogs and a cat in the foothills of Placer County. Lisa enjoys Taekwondo, reading, time with her family, staying active, and most recently improv. Keep up with her adventures in her personal blog.



How To Start Your Morning

Have you ever scribbled down an idea on paper? How did you feel, afterwards?

Normal? Hmmm. Let's try something different.

Now, try writing down an idea on something that isn't typically a writing surface (wall, desk, baseball, box). Sit back, take in that idea on the wall, desk, baseball or box. Now, how do you feel? A little different?  Do you feel like a genius who didn't have time to find paper to scribble down a thought, but had to get it out before that thought escaped forever to you settled on the quickest surface possible? I did. I hope you did too.

Making yourself feel like a genius is a good way to start any day. It's funny how changing a small thing, can make such a huge impact.




"We'll Take it From Here"

There’s a tall overpass near my home. I cross it every morning on my way to work. It’s a graffiti free, homeless ignored, sterile grey overpass. It’s only distinctive factor, and I use distinctive in the loosest sense, is a chain link fence that runs the length of the overpass. Even the chain link fence is unassuming. Well, it was unassuming. This morning, while zipping across the overpass heading to work in Sacramento, I noticed a huge gash in the chain link fence. It was an enormous hole through which I could see the steep embankment on the other side.

I was late to work, so I was driving quickly. I took this scene in for less then a second. As a accelerated away I thought, “Wow. I hope the person driving survived the accident.”

I realized, however, I had no idea if an accident did occur. I was speculating, from…what? A missing fence? There wasn’t a Roseville ambulance, tire tracks, or hazard cones. There wasn’t anything to suggest some car rocketed over the curb, and tore through the fence. I was just making up a story, and I had not even tried.

The missing fence was a nice reminder we are all very capable of sitting back and creating a story. We don’t need to consciously butt in, elbow our unconscious out of the way, and say, “we’ll take the story from here.” I’ve done it though! I’ve stood on stage, during improv shows, trying to make something up, manually construct something brilliant. "I can make comedy! I will make incredible theater!" It didn’t happen.  Our unconscious brains want to put the pieces together, to figure things out. We should step aside more often, and let our instincts, “take the story from here.”



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